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Doing It Right?


In the 80s, I had a roommate who was learning Buddhist meditation. His weekly class happened to be a night on which I always attended a lengthy Faerie ritual.

Every week, when we both returned home, I'd ask, "How was your meditation?"

He'd respond, "Difficult. How was yours?"

I'd answer, "Fun!"

As time passed, his meditations got harder and harder. Mine became more and more fun.

But, after a long time, my roommate's meditations became fun, which told me that he'd been doing it right all along.

And mine became difficult, which told me I had been doing it right all along, too.

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Francesca De Grandis aka Outlaw Bunny is the bestselling author of "Be a Goddess!" Founder of The Third Road, a Faerie Shamanism tradition that she teaches through both text and oral tradition, De Grandis says, "I'm a trickster working for benevolent chaos Gods, so I don't play mean tricks." Bard, painter, mystical innovator, and busy elf who works part-time for Santa Claus, she blogs here and on her own sites, and


  • thomas byrnes
    thomas byrnes Wednesday, 02 October 2013

    Life is a very weird trip , isn't it , Bunnykins ?

  • Francesca De Grandis
    Francesca De Grandis Wednesday, 02 October 2013

    So true! Thanks for reading, my dear fox.

  • thomas byrnes
    thomas byrnes Thursday, 03 October 2013

    De nada .

  • Kalyca Schultz
    Kalyca Schultz Thursday, 14 November 2013

    I love this.

  • Francesca De Grandis
    Francesca De Grandis Thursday, 14 November 2013

    Kalyca, thank you so much.

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